Fall camp, or "two-a-days" is a crazy time of life for football coaching families. It's a time when we prepare to not see our husbands as much. It's a time when wives may feel like a single parent to keep up with life's demands during football season. It's also a time when outside observers look at our life and laughably call us "football widows," showing looks of sympathy for this hard time of year. But don't feel sorry for me. I chose this life. I chose not only the late ni